How to Get a Date Online

We have the best advice on how to find a Girlfriend Online.

Finding a girlfriend online is a lot easier than finding one in public areas. It is easier to communicate with a girl online than talk to her face to face. The only thing you need to do is 'know the right way'.

Many guys try online dating but they fail because either they don't try hard enough or they try hard but do it in the wrong way.

The idea is to send more and more messages as it increases your chance of getting a reply.

Guys who are afraid of rejection or have already faced rejections find it hard to give it another shot. But instead of putting a full stop to your messaging, know why the girls are not replying to you. There may be guys flirting with not one but a number of girls. What are they doing that you are missing?

First of all understand that there are three main reasons why girls don't reply.

Firstly, there are many fake profiles on online dating sites and obviously fake profiles do not respond.

Secondly, some girls make their profile to see how many guys approach them. Their motive is not dating but ego boosting.

Thirdly, most guys use same pick up lines or common sentences to approach girls, like 'Hi how are you?' To seek her attention you need to work on the message you send to her.

It should be creative and make her look at your profile and respond back.

To find a girlfriend online, you must follow some simple guidelines:

Set a goal:

It is important to know your real motive. If it is making a girlfriend, then stick to it and do whatever you can to achieve your goal. If it is just time pass, then do not take rejections seriously and move on.

Create a decent but unique profile:

Whichever dating site you select, make sure you create a decent and unique profile.

Your description about yourself should make girls consider you as a different guy.

Be confident, ballsy and funny in your profile.

Here's a sample of what style ( Niel Strauss ) has on his profile which gets women to email him first! ( this is from David Deangelo's - Meet Women Online Series, read my review on it)

I’m a selfish prick. Good looking, successful, slim, toned body, young enough to do it and old enough to do it right.

I don’t smoke, but I am a lot of fun. I don’t have time for petty drama or emotional hysterics also I am intelligent and well educated and I don’t care what anyone else thinks of me.

I do what I want, when I want, but you have probably figured that out already.

What I am looking for:

If I had to write a newspaper personal , it would read something like this:

Handsome, cultured, intellectual with a big dick.

If you look at profile of most men, you will find the same boring stuff. So create a profile that makes you look genuine, funny, interesting and worth approaching.

Put pictures:

First of all your profile picture should be the one that catches attention.

It should be one that conveys the qualities that the women you are into want in a man they are into.

But universal qualities that should be conveyed in pictures are:

- Fun

- Adventourus

- Sociable

They must interest a girl and not make her close the profile page immediately.

Send creative e-mails:

Be creative when it comes to sending emails and messages. Do not write the same sentences that every other guy writes. Your message should prompt her to reply and not make her delete it immediately.

A simple formula I use is:

• Two Paragraphs Maximum and Make it seem like I'm not thinking about it too much
• Bust them on something on their profile ( empty/pic/tagline)​
• Start making them jump through my hoops
• Give them a funny Nick Name to make conversation light and humrous
• And finish with something that gives them a reason to reply back. I commonly use:
  • ''I tell you what ( nickname) …tell me three things about yourself that would want me to get to know you better, that seems like a good place to start.''

Sean King

Author @Datinghut.com

I have been writing for dating hut for a few years now. Helping give unbiased reviews so people can succeed in online dating!

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